- After realizing how sick I was, needing my husbands help for everything. I felt extremely guilty. I knew that this was not what he expected when we had just married only 3 years earlier. I told him over and over again that it would be ok and I would understand if he didn’t want to be with me anymore. He told me I was crazy! And that this is exactly why he got married. He said in sickness and in health he would never leave my side! And he has not. In fact he has helped me every step of the way and never complained! I’m super lucky to have him!